Thursday, February 8, 2007

If Luv is a Game, these are the Rules...

  • RULE ONE: You must luv yourself first. Your relationship with yourself is the central template from which all others are formed. Loving yourself is a prerequisite to creating a successful and authentic union with another.
  • RULE TWO: Partnering is a choice. The choice to be in a relationship is up to you. You have the ability to attract your beloved and cause the relationship you desire to happen.
  • RULE THREE: Creating luv is a process. Moving from 'I' to 'WE' requires a shift in perspective and energy. Being an authentic couple is an evolution.
  • RULE FOUR: Relationships provide opportunities to grow. Your  relationship will serve as an unofficial 'life-shop' in which you will learn about yourself and how you can grow on your personal path.
  • RULE FIVE: Communication is essential. The open exchange of thoughts and feelings is the life blood of your relationship.
  • RULE SIX: Negotiation will be required. There will be times when you and your partner must work through impasses. If you do this consciously and with respect, you will learn to create win-win outcomes.
  • RULE SEVEN: Your relationship will be challenged by change. Life will present turns in the road. How you maneuver those twists and turns determines the success of your relationship.
  • RULE EIGHT: You must nurture the relationship for it to thrive. Treasure your beloved and your relationship will flourish.
  • RULE NINE: Renewal is the key to longitivity. Happily ever after means the ability to keep the relationship fresh and vital.
  • RULE TEN: You will forget all this the moment you fall in love. You know all these rules inherently. The challenge is to remember them when you fall under the enchanting spell of love...!!!



Till the next post...stay lovely!